Saturday, December 13, 2008

A TREACHEROUS LOT!

Nisha returned from work, she was on cloud nine.As she entered their living room, Karthik seemed to be in profound thought.
'Hey Karthik waz wrong, u seem disturbed.'
'I dnt know, what I shud do.'
She settled beside Karthik, helping herself a glass of water.
'Come on baby yur not out of yur job rite.'
'If, yes! wat.'
'Karthik u know pretty well, I hate these jokes.'
'I am not kidding damn it, I'm out.I'm fired. Dn't u know were facing a recession now.'
Nisha's face turned pale, ' You can try for a new job rite.'
Karthik rose from couch and put few steps away from Nisha.
'There's no entry for people thre's only exit. In a country which was considered land of opportunities. The bloody America.'. He leaned against a wall, he needed support now.
'Come on Nisha lets leave.'
Nisha married to Karthik after she finished her GRE, before 2 and a half years. They were happy nd in bliss.
'Where to Karthik!'
'India baby!'
'Karthik plz e bakwaas bandh kar, I've a job now k'
'So!'
'This isn't forever, u can return after sometime.'
Karthik prickingly luking into Nisha's eyes, 'hey wait, even I know that. But yur my wife nd u need to give me company.'
'Ha, Karthik! Are u all men nutz or only you, even that Rohit. luk even I know marriage is staying together forever, but on what basis did my parents search you, we luked out for a boy who stays in America, rite! forgot. u treacherous lot asking me to accomapny you.'
'Ha, gr8. I thought u were different from that Sandhya, who left Rohith. yur rite babe! nd I think u shud know smethng else, I didnt loose my job, I got promoted.'
Nisha luked at him in vain, with all her blood ran down.
'Now! you know, whoz treacherous lot!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

FASHION! "'Fashion' mein jitna kum sochogi utna zyada kamaogi"

Panache’s face is Shonali (Kangana) but though very successful, her drug habit starts becoming a problem for her and subsequently for Panache.

Meghna Mathur(Priyanka Chopra) an aspiring model, arrives at Mumbai from Chandigarh.

Gets a good helping hand with an old acquaintance, Rohit (Ashwin Mushran) an aspiring designer who assists big shot designer Rahul Arora (Sameer Soni).

She keeps bumping into another struggling model, Maanav (Arjan) while making the rounds of modeling agencies for auditions. Meghna becomes good friends with Maanav and even starts sharing his apartment after she faces accommodation problems.















Meghna gets noticed by India’s top modeling agency Panache’s top official, Anisha Roy (Kitu)who brings her to Panache boss, Abhijit Sareen’s (Arbaaz) notice. Abhijit gets impressed by her ambitious nature and go getter attitude.Abhijit decides to terminate Shonali’s contract and ropes in Meghna in her place. Soon, Meghna is everywhere.

Overnight success spoils Meghna and the budding love relationship between her and Maanav also comes to an abrupt end.

With success her attitude upgrades into arrogance. And this overconfidence gets her tumbling down the slope of success.

If we look at the issue of morality in Bhandarkar's cinema, then all his protagonists reach a stage in their life when they cannot look themselves in the eye.




Priyanka chopra's character is skillfully sketched.

Structuring of the screenplay is as complex as easy the spirit of the story sounds to be.

Mahesh Limaye's cinematography is a little predictable in its bustle-and-bristle images. Fortunately the storytelling is anything but predictable.

There are distinctive Bhandarkar-brand of revelations on the glamour world like how wannabe models get pay-packets for being eye-candy at elite events or how eminent designers tag their labels on apparels from Bangkok's Indira Market to pass-off as their own creations.
The sequences between Priyanka and Kangana are the highlights of this bumpy journey into heartbreak and desolation. Some sequences leave a lump in the throat like the one where the ousted ramp queen Kangana confronts and warns Priyanka in a restaurant loo, or later after they bond.

Shonali's death gives shock and unpleasentness, the story ends with a happynote with the success of Meghna again.
There are other characters Janet, Rohith, Rahul Arora, Anisha, Sereen.

FALLING IN LOVE! BUT Y!

My tutor called me, 'hey Nisha! waz wrong wid u ha, seem to be disturbed!'.Well somethning was really so bad, I felt like lifting my hand in middle of class nd visit Rohit, and ask-ask wat 'why am I so disturbed'huh. He wud laugh at me, am I in Love with him...............
Primary motivation as human beings is to expand the self and to increase our abilities and our effectiveness. One of the ways we accomplish this is through our relationships with other people.
Someone who demonstrates that they are attracted to us. This creates a situation where a great opportunity is open to us for self-expansion.
IF YOU DON'T LOVE YURSELF, YOU'LL NEVER BELOVED.
WHERE:
Fall in love, on a:


You meet someone under conditions that are highly arousing — a political demonstration, turbulence on a plane, a stimulating performance — a time when the body is stirred up and excited, we tend to experience attraction at a heightened level. Statistics show that most people fall in love with someone that they have known for a while.

ATTRIBUTES:Kindness and intelligence, are extremely important in the process of falling in love. And attractiveness is not connected to these things. These two attributes are things that people learn about someone from knowing them over time. Intelligence is important in all aspects of life, especially in love. But kindness is the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship. Being unattractive can hurt in you romantic relations.If you perceive a person as very unattractive, you likely aren’t going to be open to pursuing a relationship unless there is something else attracting you more strongly than their appearance is repelling you.


Any of these 6 attributes, would have helped you to fall in love: The first time we see eachother is most likely when we make an ASSESSMENT.(its nt falling in love, juz assessment). Not sharing similar values, you may find yourself bumping up against a non-negotiable requirement which will eventually break you up. We are very attracted to people who honor the same values and beliefs that we hold. Fall in love and have more chance of staying in love is when we share equality. Intelligence, attractiveness, education, and cultural backgrounds are some of the characteristics where we look to see if we are equals. Don't be afraid to give and receive compliments. This helps-when you are a good listener, reflect back to the speaker what they have said, and show that you appreciate and hear what they communicate. People are just dying to be heard and understood. The attitude a person has about sex is important to a lasting relationship.


Psychologists have shown it takes between 90 seconds and 4 minutes to decide if you fancy someone.
Research has shown this has little to do with what is said, rather
55% is through body language
38% is the tone and speed of their voice
Only 7% is through what they say


SCIENTIFIC WAY: And finally … how to fall in love
Find a complete stranger.
Reveal to each other intimate details about your lives for half an hour.
Then, stare deeply into each other’s eyes without talking for four minutes.


LAST BUT NOT LEAST LOVE YURSELF, TO BELOVED. DN'T PUT DOWN YURSELF BECAUSE U THINK YUR NOT GOODLUKING.



Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Returning from my institute, that day there was something sucking me in my stomach- the feeling was so bad, nausea.As I sat in the bus and read the message again, ' I don't think each of us need us anymore.juz carryon'. We are together for the past 2years, I never had any doubhts about our relation......................
people are faced with mixed feelings, including shock, anger, guilt, frustration, sadness, even fear.when change occurs at different rates and directions, people grow apart and find no reason to stay in a relationship.When this happens, consider it as a part of a process.
where do u talk:
best places to have "the talk" are both public but fairly private, with a convenient escape route.
walking at a park,restaurants. don't at party or work.
The only thing worse than being dumped is being dumped in front of people you're going to have to see on a regular basis.
Timing Is Everything:
Another key to effective breakups is precise timing. Breaking up at a park gives both your dumpee and you the chance to leave once the deed is done. If you're ending the relationship at a restaurant, do it only after the check has come and you've paid for dinner. (And by the way, if you're about to dump someone, you should DEFINITELY be buying dinner.) There's nothing more horrifying than being dumped and then having to sit around making small talk for another 20 minutes while you're waiting for the check to come.



survive a breakup and avoid trauma:
Don't try to close your mind through denial because no amount of wishing can change things magically. Don't try to numb yourself using alcohol or drugs because other than the health risks, these offer only temporary relief.
understand what caused your breakup. dn't overanalyze:
If that person doesn't want to have a relationship with you, then you shouldn't have a relationship with them.
scientific perception:
Some sociologists point out that males tend to respond to relationship-threatening conflicts by just avoiding them altogether. More concretely put, husbands usually avoid conflicts more than wives. A survey found that females generally have significantly more reasons for breaking up than males did. They were more likely to consider a lack of equity, openness and autonomy beyond the relationship as reasons for the split, while males predominantly accounted for a lack of "magic quality" in the relationship as their primary reason. Turns out that even science can't rule out the inexplicable and often elusive "spark" as a qualifier for healthy relationships.

Take away:Keep your self-respect intact
Put a limit to your heartbreak
Accept the inevitability of change


The next thing that pops up to mind 'can't we be friends':
In the case of divorce, there is a legal process to manage.
Fix yourself first- fill that void with yur hobbies, yur family, yur friends.
When approaching a friendship with an ex, take time to understand your motives for pursuing that relationship. Remember what defines a friendship: conversation, connection, support and mutual interests.don't get close for a revenge that's even more worse.
Make a list of pros and cons to nurturing a friendship with your former partner. Realize that the same reasons that led to the relationship's end may be the factors that make a friendship with your ex unbeneficial. Be prepared to acknowledge the fact that someone who was a critical part of your past may not have a place in your future.
If at any point in the evening your feelings shift to an unbalanced state, stand firm and go home. Set limits on your interaction if necessary to keep the situation platonic and positive.

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JANNAT! this movie,makes u empathize with the heroine.

I's all about match fixing and bookies. But wait! It would be erroneous to classify JANNAT as a cricket-centric film. Cricket is just the wallpaper here.
Initial portions the love story - are strictly chalta hai stuff. But the best part is, JANNAT takes a step forward every 10 minutes.
Sonal named Zoya in the movie, Emraan as Arjun.
Hero takes pleasure in spelling lies,looking proudly into others eyes.
His father and the cop are two persons who know about him.
He has a real good friend, who helps him and cares for him.
Zoya comes into his life, which changes his desire of growing from a roadside to international
match fixer.
From betting on matches, he turns a bookie and subsequently upgrades himself as a match-fixer.
Arjun shifts base to South Africa working for a match-fixing mafia head Abu.
Arjun earns easy money through his illegal means. Zoya disapproves of Arjun's immoral ways but unapologetically resorts to strip-dancing in night clubs!!!
Zoya comes to know about Arjun from inspector, Abu is distinctly demarcated as the desperado as his unlawful activities are extended to terrorism funding. Arjun is given a relative clean chit on the pretext that match-fixers are not murderers.
It ends making u feel sad abouth Zoya, as Arjun is compelled to surrender he agrees but is killed
bcoz of misinterpretation.